Yesterday my friend and member of my she's the bomb squad, Conni Walkup Hull, wrote a personal essay about the concept that God doesn't give us more than we can handle, and said she disagreed because her bad marriage was more than she could handle. https://medium.com/engage/when-youve-given-everything-and-it-still-isn-t-enough-09513abdf7f6

In one of my responses I said from my POV, she did handle it. She handled it by having the courage to leave. I think that ties in with your post today, Rip.