Yet, now know that sacrificing oneself is not unconditional love, noble as it might be — it's fucking stupidity, borne out of codependency when interdependency should be mutual desire — let’s senryu

God has advised us

we can’t complete each other

share our completeness¹³

That's a brief excerpt from my magnum opus (a commenter's words) on all facets of love. https://medium.com/write-under-the-moon/what-is-love-553648694528 Footnote 13 is “The purpose of a relationship is not to have another who might complete you, but to have another with whom you might share your completeness.” — Neale Donald Walsch from Conversations with God, Book One