You may or may not know that people with borderline personality disorder have issues with boundaries. Their own boundaries can be irrational and they do not respect anyone elses boundaries. In the way too long process of ending my relationship with her I had confided in a dear friend of mine. That I discussed our relationship with my friend, who did maintain confidentiality as I knew he would, drove her to take what she thought was a justified action. She used my gmail account to send a picture of my erect penis to a woman at work. The firm did determine that I too was a victim but this was a small office and I had to be let go.