Your readers may also enjoy my recent poem that you enjoyed, https://marcus17043.medium.com/nonconformists-are-not-rebels-fdacdb633a58 subtitled "But we are evolutionaries."
I also read recently that those who conform to society or family expectations become psychologically neutered. That deep thought is in a very fun read about matchmaker arranged marriages written by Amy Sea. https://fanfare.pub/are-married-people-watching-single-people-through-the-matchmaking-window-bc14f2c2a0e8