Reminds me of the concept not often grasped of detaching with love, which I first wrote about in response to a KTHT prompt in Feb 2021, https://medium.com/know-thyself-heal-thyself/detaching-with-love-870f0391ba93, and built upon this year here https://marcus17043.medium.com/when-should-one-detach-with-love-f63180af8c8d